Sunday, February 8, 2009

Bisexual Myths

Our society is confused about what it means to be a Biologically Bisexual Male. There are so many myths that many males end up choosing a gay lifestyle, when they never wanted to in the first place.

Below are a few of the most common myths about being a bisexual male:
  • Myth #1: Bisexual males are just males in denial about being gay.

Biologically bisexual males are born mentally male and partially female. His male aspect is naturally attracted to females, and his female aspect is naturally attracted to males. Neither aspect is any more valid than the other. Gay only means that the male has 'restricted' his options for who he is 'able' to be attracted to or have an emotional relationship with strictly based on the 'same' gender, without regard to the individual person.

  • Myth #2: Bisexual males are just promiscuous males.

Biologically bisexual males are no more promiscuous than any other male. He is just able to have intimate relationships with males and females.

  • Myth #3: Bisexual males just can't decide if they are gay or straight.

Biologically bisexual males are neither gay or straight. Bisexual males are naturally born with the ability to be attracted to and are able to have emotional relationships with both males and females. Also humans cannot be 'gay' or 'straight', but are able to participate in heterosexual and homosexual 'types' of sexual activity at any given point in their lives.

  • Myth #4: Bisexual males can not maintain a monogamous relationship.

Biologically bisexual males are able to maintain a monogamous relationship with both males and females. A large majority of males currently in stable marriages with women and in stable relationships and marriages with other males, are biologically bisexual and are not aware.

  • Myth #5: Gay males just use Bisexual or DL as a cover.

DL or bisexual males who feel they need to hide their sexual attraction, or who find no need to broadcast their personal private sexual life with those not in their sex life or females who are in their sex life, do so because they do not understand how being bisexual impacts them. Males who 'choose' to belong to the gay group, in many ways are offended or rejected because males who embrace their biologically bisexual birth tend to be the more masculine males that the committed 'gay' males want but can't have, along with having the option for a wife and children.

  • Myth #6: If a male is attracted to females for years, but later finds that he is attracted to males, that means that he was always gay, but just in denial because of society.

Biologically bisexual males are born with a natural attraction for both males and females. Depending on how bisexual he is at birth, the less bisexual/female he is mentally, the less of an attraction for other males. However, what exaggerates his attraction for other males is his masturbation to male attributes he 'wishes' where his own, such as more masculinity, strength, confidence, or more muscularity. The more he works out in gyms to modify his body to simulate those 'admired' male body parts, the more he masturbates to those images, and the more he exaggerates his attraction for other males. And sadly, in the quest for another males body parts, he puts his family at risk.


CONCLUSION:
Many of the myths about bisexual males were created by those committed gay males. Once he 'chooses' to commit to 'being' gay, he is then 'restricted' as to 'who' he is 'allowed' to be attracted to and who he is 'able' to love, based on the other person being the same gender as himself. With no respect to the person, only the gender.

However with males that embrace their biologically bisexual birth, he is able to enjoy his natural attraction and find love in any human regardless of gender. He is then able to 'commit' to an individual rather than 'committing' to a gender.

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